第三十、三十一期德国华人书友会分享及推荐

时间:2018.05.26  2018.06.02



     “细读离骚还痛饮,饱看修竹何妨肉。” 第三十一期是特别的边吃炸鸡边分享的书友会,感谢小蓝为书友们提供地点。小哥哥小姐姐们雅俗不分,读书吃肉两不碍,度过了充实的一下午。



耶鲁公开课《心理学导论》1

推荐人:田垚暐

   心理学源自人类对自身的好奇。为什么我们会思考?为什么我们会有情感?别人在想什么,自己又是怎么想的?我们为什么会做梦?这些梦有什么意义?这些问题来自于人类生活的每一分每一秒。

    通过这门公开课,可以一窥心理学的门径,从而开启爱好者在范围广阔的心理学中的冒险之旅。心理学并不神秘,更不是“巫术”,它不过是我们了解自身的钥匙。人相比于宇宙虽然渺小,却不简单。

课程从“人是什么?”这一基本哲学问题切入,介绍了两个最为常见,也被古今中外学者广泛激烈争论的观点:一元论与二元论。一元论是指人并人的思维一道,不过是一堆能相互协作的神经细胞的产物。相反,二元论则认为人是由物理的肉体和灵魂组成的,而灵魂依附肉体而存在。其中一位最著名的二元论者即是笛卡尔。而当代认知心理学和神经科学家则普遍认同一元论。
    许多人视弗洛伊德为精神分析理论的奠基人。弗洛伊德的一生致力于“歇斯底里症”的精神分析疗法,他出版了许多著作,对“歇斯底里症”,性动因,梦学以及宗教都有自己的论述。他提出的理论,对人类生活的方方面面都努力作出解释。虽然他的许多理论缺乏科学性,需要辩证去看,但是他的价值正是在于他为许多的心理学理论创造了研究的切入口。
    建议观看此公开课的朋友,适当结合推荐读物和自己感兴趣的阅读材料,加深理解。














主题:华为发展模式

分享者:赵龙

华为模式的撬点:农村包围城市

中国革命成功的一条关键经验是农村包围城市。同样,华为的海外战略也借鉴了这条经验。1995年,华为启动了拓展国际市场的艰苦漫长旅程,起点就是非洲和亚洲的一些第三世界国家。经历了6年的漫长拼搏,一直到2001年华为在国际市场才真正有了成效。这一年,华为的产品已经进入非洲、亚洲等十几个国家,年销售额超过3亿美元。随后打入欧洲市场,日本市场 ,美国市场。












《命运的内核》

作者:格雷厄姆·格林

推荐人:韩璐

作者曾21次提名诺贝尔文学奖,20世纪英国首屈一指的文学巨匠,是马尔克斯、福克纳、库切等人心中的文学大师。《命运的内核》创作于1948年,被很多学者认为是像《尤利西斯》《了不起的盖茨比》一样能被称为20世纪最有价值和经得起时间考验的作品。格林通过对斯考比这一悲剧人物的描写,穷尽了一个人在命运中会经历的一切考验:爱情、婚姻、家庭、事业、责任、怜悯、信仰。他甚至被誉为20世纪人类意识和焦虑的卓越记录者。

《闲情偶寄》

作者:清 李渔

推荐人:朱非凡

一本有关生活情趣 生活美学 以及戏曲理论的书,作者更著名的一部作品是 肉(玉)蒲团

《The Hitch Hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy》

(《银河系漫游指南》)

作者:Douglas Adams  推荐者:小蓝

    Don’t Panic! 既然这颗”基本无害”的蓝色人造行星在12分钟后就要被强拆了,不如先喝一杯“泛银河系含漱爆破液”压压惊,然后带上你的毛巾,耳朵里塞一条Bable Fish, 按照这本银河系最畅销的漫游指南,搭飞船去旅行吧。至少也要“去宇宙尽头的餐厅”吃一顿早餐,你要做的只是事先存一分钱而已。

    希望你不会倒霉的只能遇到Vogon人的飞船,这些被进化的力量所抛弃的Vogon人最讨厌搭车客了。但就像抑郁的机器人Marvin所说,“每当你觉得人生不可能更糟糕的时候,它就是会更糟的”。所以如果你不幸上了Vogon飞船,无论如何也不能让这些“银河系第三糟糕的诗人”念诗给你听,然而肯定会发生的。

    总之,找到Deep Thought, 作为宇宙第二伟大的电脑,他会告诉你关于life, universe and everything的答案,在750万年之后。或者你也可以翻开这本书找一找。

注意注意:千万带上你的毛巾!

《卖掉法拉利的高僧》

作者:罗宾夏瑪 (Robin Sharma)

推荐人:苏耕立

    这本书被“牧羊少年奇幻之旅”的作者 保罗科尔贺推荐:“迷人的故事,教导的同时也高兴的阅读”,本书同样也是一本寓言故事,主人翁是一个战无不胜的工作狂无敌律师,但是妻子跟他离婚了,跟父母的关系也很差,有一次在法庭上倒下了。医生诊断他是心脏病发,距离死神如此接近,他才发现他努力冲刺自己的事业,赚很多钱,买的别墅,名车,私人飞机等等这些死了之后都带不走。所以他变卖了房子,飞机,还有法拉利,去印度追寻成功与幸福的不一样定义。(想自己阅读的同学以下可以跳过哦)总之经过重重考验之后,终于在喜马拉雅山中的神秘修行村中,找到了心灵导师。

    老师讲了一个故事,从前有一个花园开满了美丽的花朵,花园的边缘有一个巨大的灯塔,指引着海上的船,灯塔的门打开了,走出住在里面穿着丁字裤的相扑,相扑发现前方草地上的黄金沙漏,捡起沙漏的时候,不小心摔倒了,昏迷了很久之后,被一束花扑鼻的香气所唤醒,他捡起了花束,走在了一条布满小钻石的道路之上。

    这个有点无厘头的故事提到的七个记号所代表的意义是: 1.花园- 代表自己的头脑,在头脑里面一定要种下良善的种子,才可以长出美丽的花朵,恶念要学着觉察,像拔杂草一样拔掉。2.灯塔- 确立一个对的方向有毅力的走才是对的,不要操之过急。3. 相扑-要长到如此硕大的体态,需要有计划的不断的进食,象征人要有计划的不断学习,才能不断改善自己的人生。4. 丁字裤-是小绳子组合成的绳子做成的,每条小绳子就象征着每一个自律的行动,人要自律才有自由,有句话叫“若要人前显贵,必先人后受罪”,和“你做的事定义你是谁”,背后辛苦的每个小自律也才能让自己在别人面前有面子。(因为丁字裤是遮丑的用途,绳子断了裤子就掉了。)5. 黄金沙漏-最宝贵的资源是时间,一天二十四小时是无价的恩赐,要好好管理安排,不找借口拖延而让自己虚度年华。6. 花束-利他的心态“赠人玫瑰,手留余香”,助人的同时,自己的心灵也会得到满足。7. 布满钻石的步道- 生活中的每一个小确幸,记得活在当下,好好体会每一个小幸福,不烦恼过去不能改变的事情,也不忧愁未来超出掌控的事情。 希望以上七个智慧,我们可以在生活中好好印证,观察自己的思想,自爱自律,善良感恩,兼顾内心平静充实与成功,控制好速度,有时停下来充充电,加加油,才可以继续跑下去。

附带一张推荐人草稿纸上画的萌萌的配图


《史蒂夫·乔布斯传》

作者:沃尔特·艾萨克森

推荐人:肖斯元

“致疯狂的人,他们特立独行。他们桀骜不驯。他们惹是生非。他们格格不入。他们用与众不同的眼光看待事物。”如果此刻的你希望改变点什么;如果你觉得自己平庸且碌碌无为,那么你可以看看这本书,它会为你的生活重新注入了很多活力,给你改变的勇气。虽然乔布斯身上有很多我难以接受的缺点,但他强大的人格魅力让我仍然喜欢他。从他身上我重新认识了自信,自律,追求完美,以及对物质的态度,书中也有很多有趣的情节,值得一看。

《潜水钟与蝴蝶》

作者:让-多米尼克·鲍比

推荐人:李竹溪

     这是一篇瘫痪的绝症病人的自述,一本依靠作者仅能活动的左眼一次又一次的眨眼才完成的作品。

    “我的肉体沉重如潜水钟,但内心渴望像蝴蝶般自由飞翔,本来想死的我,只能靠想象与回忆活下去。”突如其来的疾病使原本西装革履的精英一夜之间变为瘫痪在床生活不能自理的病人。也多亏这场突如其来的疾病才使作者有机会去注意到那些之前没有注意的生活的细节。

    你永远都不知道明天会发生什么,你也永远都不知道你还有没有机会可以再做一遍这件事,作者在回忆给爸爸最后一次刮胡子时候说到“我希望我能更用心的做个剃须匠”。“成就如沙堡生命如海浪,浪花会淘尽所有的幻象”活在当下是我看书时候最大的感受,过好眼前的每一天比什么都重要。

薛兆丰的经济学课-预告篇

推荐人:苏乙骢

真实的世界总是这样的,资源不够,时间有限,互相依赖,需要协调。经济学感觉很高深,系统宏达,派系繁杂,离普通人似乎又很遥远。可是如果我告诉你,只要有人,就有需求,只要有两个以上的人,需求就不同,而为了满足自己的需求,交易就迅速的产生,为了更方便的交易,货币就自然出现在市场,有了货币,那么通货膨胀,通过紧缩,信息对市场的影响就如影随形,市场的垄断,舆论的外部效应,一切的事情的发展,100年前如此,1000年前如此,10000年前也如此。理解消化了薛兆丰老师的“二手知识”,发现很多的现象我长出了新的视角,明白了很多原来一厢情愿的解决问题的方案,原来注定违背经济规律。我不想成为经济学专家,但是,我想拥有再多一个观察世界的角度。

话题讨论:日本对华关系的演变

话题阐述者:徐剑

因日本的主体文化源自中国,在精神层面上对中华这一儒家文化的缔造者处于长期的仰视心理。所以,在中日两国实力此消彼长之间,日本对华关系的处理既有激烈甚至残暴的挣扎,又有难以割舍无可奈何的依赖。

《暗店街》 

作者:帕特里克.莫迪亚诺 

推荐人:张新龙

八年记忆空白,时针却指向当下

“我”是谁?

“我”穿梭在夜幕下的巴黎,捕捉着声音、气味、甚至光影,这些碎片“或许大概可能”是记忆中熟悉的组成,这些记忆“或许大概可能”就是“我”。 当似有若无的线索中断在罗马暗店街二号,“我”依旧没有答案。

而我们却有了答案。

作者只是凭借侦探小说的外壳,抽丝剥茧式地构建起一所巴黎沦陷的记忆博物馆,陈列着一个个焦虑的路人甲,一个个漂泊的海滩人。他们才是寻访的重心。

而“我”?“我漂漂无所适,不过悠悠一身影。”

《平行宇宙》 第一章

作者:加来道雄

推荐人:赵龙

内容:

1.神话传说:盘古开天和希腊神话都描述了世界起源于混沌

2.膨胀理论:观测显示宇宙处于膨胀之中, 假如一个宇宙可以产生子宇宙或分裂出子宇宙,即平行宇宙,那么这个宇宙的体量就会增大继而向外扩张

3.宇宙的终结:主要的暗物质正不断地加速宇宙膨胀,银河系附近的星系被推离我们,1500亿年以后,绝大多数星系被推向遥远的边缘,银河系附近只会存留少数的星系,

星星不再发光,核火消耗殆尽,银河系陷入一片寒冷,并走向死亡,智能生物存活的途径之一是,逃离银河系,找到更高维的空间。

《本色》

作者:乐嘉

推荐人:苏耕立

    第一次认识乐嘉是在《非诚勿扰》,对他犀利的言辞和灵活的思路留下很深的印象,他独创了性格色彩学,这本书是乐嘉的自剖书,写的人是他,但是读者往往会觉得很有共鸣,觉得说的就是自己。本色是要活出自己(的本色)。

    本书前半部比较像是家书,说的是他还没出名前的故事和写给子女的嘱咐,后半部写他的事业经历和工作感悟。(稍微帮书友们抓些关键字出来)本书探讨了梦想-那些你想实现的,正在实现的和已经放弃的。探讨目标- 给自己一个难关,如果能做成这个目标(游泳到对面的岛屿,就能跟心仪的女孩表白,就能让自己的第一本书出世。)探讨欲望-是成功的动力,从“想要”到“一定要”是成功与失败的距离,有时候行动比思考更重要,对的事,做就对了,之后再慢慢想。如何增加自信?自信是一个积累的过程,乐嘉说“当你达成一个梦想,你会获取等值的力量,而想得到更大的力量,必须完成更大的一个梦想。梦想没有最大,只有更大,力量没有最大,只有更大。当你将一个梦想达至顶峰的时候,你会给自己一个全新的梦想,这是让你自己的人生变得有意义的一种方式”。(建议将梦想具体量化为有明确时间限制的可切割的小目标,并且把梦想当成是你的恋爱对象)

    乐嘉的红色性格让他对很多事情都很有激情,但是又不持久,黄色性格的“证明者”特质是他的动力,往往会对否定他的人,产生要证明他是错的,而付出艰苦的努力。(他出身不所以自卑,想证明自己可以,想给父母过上好日子)。 

    给青春期的儿女的书信那边很有意思,全书亮点之一,推荐找来阅读,给女儿写学习成绩-不要考完试就还给老师知识,阅读-“书应杂读,业要精专”,坚持每周阅读一本书(正餐),別只是刷网路,只有碎片信息的吸取(零食)。业余生活- 要学欣赏美,为了兴趣而学才艺,要学就要学好,恋爱-积极健康的恋爱可以让人进步,但要学会保护自己,和做人-,不轻诺,不食言。给儿子写了未来-做自利利他的工作,梦想-做自己而不要在乎评论,朋友-向牛人学习,真实-不盲从,不轻信,不妄言。乐嘉还强调要多出去走走,以免窄了眼界,加上多读历史-以史为鉴,可以知兴衰。有些爱情格言,乐嘉认为根本是鸟话,他搜集起来纠偏,也很有意思。

    后半部有《非诚勿扰》的一些小内幕,还有他对于嘉宾们心态的分析,看了令人恍然大悟。另外,在职场上情商智商相仿的时候,拼的就是体力(健康-看谁活得长),各位不要忘记规律锻炼的重要性。自己不强大,就会被人欺,到哪而都一样。所以还是要多多花时间在磨练自己的能力上。我觉得性格色彩是一个工具,了解自己(洞见),理解别人(洞察),多实战(修炼),达成有效的沟通说服他人(影响),就是这个工具的用途。



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